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Most of my major life decisions get made by accident. I think this was considered charming in my earlier twenties.

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I still like my vintage, beat up guitar better, but I certainly wouldn’t say no were I, let’s say, handed this Chanel one for keeps.

Not sure if it’s the inner California girl in me (on account of me being born in L.A., I guess?) or because we’re headed to Rincon, Puerto Rico (acclaimed for its world class surfing beaches!) but I am now totally convinced I must rock this surfer girl look on our Puerto Rican vacation next week and perhaps all of the upcoming summer.

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Time Magazine: All Time 100 Novels (1923 - 2006)

Nerd Alert: I love lists like this. Particularly when I’ve been anxious to find more books to read lately. And now I’ve got 80 since I’ve only finished 20 or so of the following 100 (*lowers head in shame*).

P.S. How fantastic is it that Judy Blume’s “Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret” is on this list?)

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The Adventures of Augie March, Saul Bellow

All The King’s Men, Robert Penn Warren

American Pastoral, Philip Roth

An American Tragedy, Theodore Dreiser

Animal Farm, George Orwell

Appointment in Samarra, John O’Hara

Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret, Judy Blume

The Assistant, Bernard Malamud

At Swim-Two-Birds, Flann O’Brien

Atonement, Ian McEwan

Beloved, Toni Morrison

The Berlin Stories, Christopher Isherwood

The Big Sleep, Raymond Chandler

The Blind Assassin, Margaret Atwood

Blood Meridian, Cormac McCarthy

Brideshead Revisited, Evelyn Waugh

The Bridge of San Luis Rey, Thornton Wilder

Call It Sleep, Henry Roth

Catch-22, Joseph Heller

The Catcher in the Rye, J.D. Salinger

A Clockwork Orange, Anthony Burgess

The Confessions of Nat Turner, William Styron

The Corrections, Jonathan Franzen

The Crying of Lot 49, Thomas Pynchon

A Dance to the Music of Time, Anthony Powell

The Day of the Locust, Nathanael West

Death Comes for the Archbishop, Willa Cather

A Death in the Family, James Agee

The Death of the Heart, Elizabeth Bowen

Deliverance, James Dickey

Dog Soliders, Robert Stone

Falconer, John Cheever

The French Lieutenant’s Woman, John Fowles

The Golden Notebook, Doris Lessing

Go Tell It On The Mountain, James Baldwin

Gone With the Wind, Margaret Mitchell

The Grapes of Wrath, John Steinbeck

Gravity’s Rainbow, Thomas Pynchon

The Great Gatsby, F. Scott Fitzgerald

A Handful of Dust, Evelyn Waugh

The Heart Is A Lonely Hunger, Carson McCullers

The Heart of the Matter, Graham Greene

Herzog, Saul Bellow

Housekeeping, Marilynne Robinson

A House for Mr. Biswas, V.S. Naipaul

I, Claudius, Robert Graves

Infinite Jest, David Foster Wallace

Invisible Man, Ralph Ellison

Light in August, William Faulkner

The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe, C.S. Lewis

Lolita, Vladimir Nabokov

Lord of the Flies, William Golding

The Lord of the Rings, J.R.R. Tolkien

Loving, Henry Green

Lucky Jim, Kingsley Amis

The Man Who Loved Children, Christina Stead

Midnight’s Children, Salman Rushdie

Money, Martin Amis

The Moviegoer, Walker Percy

Mrs. Dalloway, Virginia Woolf

Naked Lunch, William Burroughs

Native Son, Richard Wright

Neuromancer, William Gibson

Never Let Me Go, Kazuo Ishiguro

1984, George Orwell

On the Road, Jack Kerouac

One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest, Ken Kesey

The Painted Bird, Jerzy Kosinski

Pale Fire, Vladimir Nabokov

A Passage to India, E.M. Forster

Play It As It Lays, Joan Didion

Portnoy’s Complaint, Philip Roth

Possession, A.S. Byatt

The Power and the Glory, Graham Greene

The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie, Muriel Spark

Rabbit, Run, John Updike

Ragtime, E.L. Doctorow

The Recognitions, William Gaddis

Red Harvest, Dashiell Hammett

Revolutionary Road, Richard Yates

The Sheltering Sky, Paul Bowles

Slaughterhouse-Five, Kurt Vonnegut

Snow Crash, Neal Stephenson

The Sot-Weed Factor, John Barth

The Sound and the Fury, William Faulkner

The Sportswriter, Richard Ford

The Spy Who Came In From the Cold, John le Carre

The Sun Also Rises, Ernest Hemingway

Their Eyes Were Watching God, Zora Neale Hurston

Things Fall Apart, Chinua Achebe

To Kill a Mockingbird, Harper Lee

To the Lighthouse, Virginia Woolf

Tropic of Cancer, Henry Miller

Ubik, Philip K. Dick

Under the Net, Iris Murdoch

Under the Volcano, Malcolm Lowry

Watchmen, Alan Moore & Dave Gibbons

White Noise, Don DeLillo

White Teeth, Zadie Smith

Wide Sargasso Sea, Jean Rhys

My boyfriend and I promised we’d keep Valentine’s Day low-key this year.

Past Valentine’s Days have included extravagent presents, sweet surprises, and even our first outloud I-Love-Yous, but with a week-long vacation in Puerto Rico just around the corner (Only! Four! More! Days! Away!), a relaxed and cozy Valentine’s Day sounded absolutely mandatory.

Even though I often take charge of the cooking in our apartment, my boyfriend is fantastic in the kitchen and wanted to cook us a special Valentine’s Day dinner. So after the delicious sushi lunch and equally delicious shopping in Williamsburg, we took the L back into the city and made our way over to the Whole Foods in Chelsea to pick up the necessary ingredients.

And voila. Dinner was a three cheese and Italian sausage lasagna, paired with homemade garlic bread and a 2004 burgundy we purchased in Chicago several years ago. Dessert was meant to be Framboise Lambic over French Vanilla ice cream (a very simple but incredibly tasty dessert we learned from the geniuses at Resto, one of our favorite restaurants in Manhattan). Unfortunately, all the lasagna and red wine made that impossible.

Which is perfect, since now - on this snowy, wet, cold Tuesday - I have a bottle of Framboise Lambic and a carton of French Vanilla ice cream waiting for me at home. This should make getting through this work day somewhat easier.

A very low-key, intimate sushi Valentine’s Day lunch in Billysburg. The place epitomized “hole in the wall and goddamn I hope it stays that way.”

The fish tasted so fresh and delicious. The salads that accompanied our entrees were topped with an ”I need to lick what’s left in my bowl immediately” dressing - something more vinegary and maybe almost with a hint of nut, not at all resembling the typical bright orange-ginger house dressings you get in most Japanese restaurants. The soup that accompanied our entrees was also unique and scrumptious - a hearty vegetable broth of some sort with asparagus and various other vegetables floating about. I’m sure their desserts are just as delightful, but both my boyfriend and I were too stuffed to find out.

A good way to work off the calories happened to shove itself in our faces when a Paul Smith sales shop just happened to be down the block from the restaurant. Mmmm impeccable British tailoring.

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